Although I love my sisters dearly, when they get together they get all stuck up and fall into a sister hive mentality. They get together and accuse me of having a FOMO mentality as they make plans to exclude me. The way they act sometimes reminds me of Cinderella’s evil step sisters.

Today was one of their birthdays and when my husband’s mother called my mom’s phone, a couple of them badgered and bullied me into answering a phone that did not belong to me. The youngest of them screamed because I was not playing into her power trip, while the middle sister chimed in with her whiny voice. It was too much!

Also, whenever I make plans for anything they are quick to put it down and are also quick to make similar ones excluding me. Like the time I made plans for a family trip but they all said no until they heard my dad was coming, and in the last minute they made plans on meeting up with my dad as my trip ended.

They accuse me of being fearful of missing out while their very intent is that I do miss out. It’s absolutely hurtful and disgusting, and every time I am hopeful that isn’t who they really are, they prove to me that that is absolutely who they are. I have to add that one of them is more mature and less of a snob then the younger two so maybe it isn’t fair to group them together, but overall they have all ganged up on me at times while never have I nor any other sister ganged up on any of them.

I don’t need them, but I do love them and think often that maybe a family trip would be fun, but am often reminded when we get together of their sour attitude. For some reason, they love to make fun of me and make sure I feel like an outcast. I believe it’s because I am on the spectrum and that’s just how people have treated us our whole lives as I have experienced this type of bullying outside of my sisters. I hope people can grow mature and realize that isolating someone and making them feel less isn’t right as I am sure they would hate to feel that pain themselves. My heart constantly breaks when I experience this sister bullying.

Another thing I really dislike about them is when they put down other people as if they were better people themselves. For example, they would complain about how stuck up and judgmental my aunts are while they are being the same way. They also love to hold grudges.

Well, I’m done venting. Need to move into a more positive head space.